Is My Boyfriend Cheating on Me?

Every relationship has its ups and downs. But some downs are deeper than others. The following was written to help you answer the question of "is my boyfriend cheating on me?" I hope the answer is no, but if he is demonstrating the actions listed below he probably is.

Think back to how you met your boyfriend. If you found him at the tail-end of a relationship or "stole" him away from someone else you need to be constantly vigilant to him cheating on you. Once a cheater, always a cheater is very sage advice that I beg you heed. 

Men tend to be creatures of habit so any sudden changes in behavior should be analyzed. For most people working late is the go-to excuse for not being able to hang out with you as much as before. So many men have used this that it has almost become a de facto admission of guilt. Some men have become savvy to this, so watch out for the sudden interest in going on camping trips with the "guys."

The change can be a positive one, though. For example, some men will feel so guilty about their lady on the side that they will begin showering you with gifts and attention. This is an effort for them to explain away their actions to themselves, by showing that when they are with you it's so good that it doesn't matter what they do away from you.

I recommend that you question your partner, if he is receiving phone calls late at night or texts that he doesn't want to talk about. These calls can often be how he and his mistress set up their next tryst. Even without the threat of infidelity looming though, it's important for you to set limits and for him to value his time with you.

If he is spending all of his time on the internet, or reading emails that he hides from you, are bad signs. The internet has seen an explosion of dating/hook-up sites that he could be prowling. If you walk by the computer and he begins frantically closing windows you have a good indication that Mr. Wonderful is actually Mr. Sleazeball.

Be suspicious of his friends that never seem to busy when you aren't around, yet can never make it to events that you are attending. If he has a friendship with this type of dynamic than you should become very worried; if something hasn't happened already, one or both of them want it.

In an attempt to deflect your suspicions, he may accuse you of cheating. Cheaters tend to be the first to think that their partners are testing the waters. If you have given him no reason to doubt your intentions, but are being accused it could be a sign that you need to look for some of the other that your boyfriend is cheating on you.

Any one of the items listed above can help you to answer the question "is my boyfriend cheating on me," but I always recommend looking for a pattern of behavior if you want to be sure. The other side of the coin is, does it matter? Do you want to waste all your energy trying to catch him with his hand in the cookie jar? If you aren't feeling loved and believe that he is mistreating you than you should find someone to treat you right. But the choice is yours, only you can decide what you will tolerate.

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Sabrina Summerfield

Your Marriage Angel